Summary
Gifted Children often identified as being
gifted when they begin to talk much earlier than
their peers. However, there is lesser known
group of gifted children who display their
intelligence in every other way apart from
speech. These children are gifted late talkers.
This factsheet covers the characteristics
that these children share and offers support
and advice to parents of gifted late
talkers.
Introduction
Around 15% of 2 year olds are
developmentally delayed with their speech ability. Of that
15%, a small minority are Gifted Late
Talkers. These children are displaying a Specific
Language Impairment and this is the term
that health professionals and speech therapists
will use to describe this form of speech
delay. These children have an excellent
understanding of speech, but have
difficulty expressing themselves using language. Very
little is known about exactly why these
bright children experience speech delay. Gifted
Late Talkers are essentially developing
asynchronously. Their intellectual development is
much more advanced than their chronological
age and speech ability.
Their speech can take years to develop;
most do not speak intelligibly until they are 3.5 or much older (can
be up to the age of around 6-7).
Characteristics of Gifted Late Talkers
·
Boys are 3 times as likely as
girls to have speech delay
Strong family history of late talking
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Exceptional memory
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Excellent understanding
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Communicate well using other
means
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Mischievous
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Long concentration span when
engaged in activities that interest them
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Personal quirks
·
Independent
·
Like music (although not always
the usual nursery rhymes- they tend to prefer more
·
complex sounds)
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Interested in
mechanics/engineering and how everything works
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Extremely curious
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Affectionate
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Very good at puzzles
·
Highly active, enjoys physical
play and time outdoors
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May have problems sleeping and
‘switching off’
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Pick up on conversations and
responds accordingly (non-verbally) from a very early age
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Late to potty train
Only
What Interests Them
Einstein, the most famous late talking
genius:
‘Ignored whatever bored him, making no
attempt to master it; but if something caught his interest, he embraced it with
the purposeful concentration of a watchmaker.’
Similarly, gifted late talking children are
often unwilling to participate in any obvious attempts to practice speech as it
bores and frustrates them. These same children surprise their parents when they
are absorbed in a task that interests them for much longer than their peers are
able to concentrate. The key to engaging gifted late talkers into practicing
speech is to get involved in what interests them. These children are often
quirky and obsessed with particular things. Playing with your child whist they
are absorbed in what fascinates them is an ideal time to incorporate conversation;
to begin with, this will be one-sided!
Keen
Observers
These children are excellent observers of
day to day life. They are absorbing and evaluating their surroundings and those
around them. One school of thought regarding the reason why gifted children
talk late is the belief that these children are absorbing and processing far
more than they are physically able to communicate via speech.
Gifted late talkers are highly intelligent
and very capable; consequently, they are able to amuse themselves quite well
without the need to participate in ‘baby play’ or ‘baby talk’. What interests them
is not necessarily what most toddlers find fascinating. Many late talking
gifted children tend to enjoy ‘grown up toys’ such as household appliances,
computers or mobile phones!
Speech Therapy and Gifted Children
It is very common for gifted late talkers
to be non-compliant during speech therapy sessions as they are very aware of
why they have been brought there and the characteristic gifted personality
trait of stubbornness becomes more apparent than ever. During a speech therapy
session, it is not uncommon for the gifted child to categorically refuse to
participate in any attempts made by the therapist to engage the child and even
initially bond with them! It is a good idea to speak to the speech therapist
prior to a therapy session and tell them about your gifted child; in particular
what they are interested in and what makes them happy. Rather than the brightly
coloured toys strategically placed on the floor, the gifted late talker may
instead be fascinated by the stapler or phone on the therapist’s desk! In which
case, it may work best for the therapist to initially bond with your child by
sharing his/her interest and build up trust. Once this rapport has been established,
it is far easier to follow speech therapy exercises (although they still may
require tweaking to suit the gifted child’s abilities and interests or your
child could again refuse to participate).
Practical Speech Therapy Strategies to
Help your Child Develop Speech:
OWLing- Observe, Wait, Listen to what your
child is saying
MMA- Match, Model and Add More language
Share the Moment- get down to your child’s
level and mimic their actions. Use this time
participate in their chosen form of communication,
acknowledge their methods and use of
communication and build up experiences and
practice from there.
How Else Can Parents Help?
Play
Studies have shown that children make good
progress with speech when they are able to see their parent’s faces and read
their expressions. It is essential that the child is engaged and challenged, but
at the same time is happy and secure. As with any activity for gifted children,
it is important to consider what interests your child and then try to
incorporate speech into that particular activity. A running commentary by a
parent whilst your child is engaged in a task, including plenty of encouragement
and high praise works well without being too obvious an attempt at cajoling a resistant
child into talking. Quick responses to any sounds made by your will also
encourage your child to experiment with making more complex sounds eventually.
Although it is impossible to be absolutely
certain what goes through the minds of these gifted late talkers, judging from
their ingenuity in other areas and their incredible memory, it is easy to conclude
that they are capable of complex and analytical thought patterns. Such children
require varied and increased amounts of activities in comparison to other
children their ag
Perfectionism and Speech Delay
As ‘gifted’ children, this group of late
talkers are highly prone to perfectionism. A perfectionist late talker can be
easily put off imperfect attempts at speech and may even categorically refuse
to participate in speech therapy as needing therapy is an admission that they
are ‘imperfect’ and need help to do something that other children can do with
apparent ease. Gifted perfectionists tend to place an enormous amount of
pressure on themselves to achieve the impossible. In the case of Gifted Late
Talking Perfectionists, these children are facing the enormous pressure of
trying to communicate highly intelligent thought and observations within the
restrictions of being a 2/3 year old!
To help late talker with a perfectionist
streak requires a subtle approach by parents. Parents who desperately wish for
their children to start speaking ‘normally’ may inadvertently thwart their
child’s initial attempts by being overly enthusiastic. Do pay close attention
to what your child is looking at when they are making a sound as this may well
be their attempt at naming an object, and do resist the temptation to put words
into their mouths before they have made a sound as this will put a gifted late
talker off talking.
It is advised that parents do not attempt to
correct the pronunciation of what little words their child does attempt. At
this stage, it is important to encourage your child to make as many sounds as possible
and not to worry about ‘perfect’ speech. For example if your child says ‘Dooda’
instead of ‘Water’ or ‘Baba’ instead of ‘Spider’, answer or respond to their
attempt at speaking and talk about the topic, but do not make them feel as
though they have said the wrong word.
Patience is Key!
Patience is essential to parenting a gifted
late talker, as is a strong belief in your child’s abilities and intelligence.
Your child is unique and cannot and should not be pigeon-holed into set
parameters.
Please do not be discouraged that they have
not reached their milestone in talking when they
should. Avoid comparisons to other children
who are speaking fluently and clearly from an earlyage. Instead, encourage your
child’s interests and stay positive in order to avoid your child picking up on
any anxieties you may have regarding their speech delay.
This group of late talking gifted children
will talk when and where they are ready and not when it suits those around
them! There are no physical or intellectual barriers to speech for this group
of children. The only thing holding them back is a developmental delay which
will improve with time, encouragement and patience.